Abandon the searching and also the finding for the sake of being for both searching and finding are aspects of grasping which are contrary to kenosis (see Philippians 2) Being or rather "be-coming" (the lure of future promise bringing the actualisation of the kingdom. The carrot and the donkey except the donkey gets the carrot while it moves. ) is self emptying - it is a verb - a movement ever away from substantiality for the sake of something more concrete - love - the spirit of the Cross.